You give with your heart—but don’t forget to keep a little for yourself.

You’re the kind of person who lights up when others are happy. Whether it’s paying for a friend’s meal or helping your family when they’re struggling—you give without hesitation. 

It’s the way you express love, care, and connection.

Givers often find deep fulfilment in helping others. Like it’s your duty to ease someone else’s burden. And honestly? That’s beautiful.

In a world that can feel cold and transactional, people like you are the warmth that reminds others what truly matters.

But sometimes, your kindness can come at your own expense.

You may find it hard to say no—even when your bank account says you should. Over time, your needs come second while you’re busy lifting others.

Why do You Give?

For Givers, money represents connection. You associate giving with being good and worthy. It can also be how you seek approval or keep peace in relationships.

You don’t want to disappoint anyone. But here’s something to remember: healthy boundaries are not rejection—they’re protection. For you, and for the ones you love. 

Your Strengths

  • Compassionate: You feel deeply and care sincerely about people’s well-being.

  • Selfless: You’re often the first to offer help, even if it means sacrificing your own comfort.

  • Trusted: Others rely on you because they know you’re dependable and thoughtful.

Growth Opportunities

  • Give with Limits: Create a ‘giving budget’—a set amount you can give freely, without guilt or risk.

  • Don’t Skip Self-Care: Include your own needs in your budget. You deserve just as much care as anyone else.

  • Say No Gently: Practice phrases like ‘I wish I could help more, but this month I have a tight budget.’ Saying no doesn’t make you selfish.

A Message for You

Your heart is your greatest asset. But you don’t need to pour from an empty cup to prove your love. Taking care of yourself financially doesn’t make you less kind—it makes your kindness sustainable.

You’re not here to fix everyone. You’re here to love, grow, and live a full life—and that includes your own.

So keep giving. Keep being the light. 

But never forget: you matter too.